RUIN ME, PLEASE

Part 8: Eternal Virgin

I won’t bury the lede, because even I am beginning to question where I’m going with this: Love is not power. Love is not desire. Love is not control. Love is not security. Love is not getting what we want. Love is not a promise. Love is not commitment. Love is not a projected fantasy of who we think we would be if only we were loved by somebody the way …